As I walked out of clinic at 1am on Monday morning a family were arriving to say goodbye to their pet having been summoned by phone just 15 minutes before when he started to deteriorate so rapidly that it was obvious he only had minutes to live. They made it in time to say bye thanks to the Vets Now ECC nurse recognising what was happening early and allowing them to be summoned.
Through the weekend we’d helped countless animals who left the clinic to go home with their parents, yet there was a high proportion that was never going be leaving, whether or not their pet parents realised it when they arrived. Unfortunately our pets can never tell us how sick they are, how much pain they are in, and that they want to go on over the rainbow bridge.
This is worse as often it is not just that they are seriously ill (and sometimes even dying painfully), but is also so sudden that their parents may not have had time to come to terms with this and accept it. It is not human nature to give up and sometimes when it comes to the decision to end life it can feel this way even though it is really not.
The weekend was a mix of those that came to ask us to help them send their loved pets on over Rainbow Bridge – the request of one parent that nearly made me cry was that someone would cuddle them as they moved on. Then there were those that hadn’t realised how bad the condition was and how much pain their pet was in that let them go on pain free when realising. There were also those that just refused to give up even though it could be considered to be the kindest thing for their pets.
Vets are legally entitled to euthanise an animal on welfare grounds if they believe the welfare is compromised and the animal is suffering. However , we realise the importance of the bond parents make with their pet and that doing so will not be easy on the parents – in fact it would be very traumatic for the parents which is something we never want.
Instead we rely on our ability to communicate with pet parents. Sometimes it is very obvious to us how bad an animal is because of our experience and training whilst it may not be to their parents. We release that the animal is never going to be able to leave alive, and whilst we may attempt to make the animal comfortable with very strong pain medications, it is the owner that we need to treat.
Euthanasia is one of the most powerful tools that a vet has – read about how it really works here.